The Wish

We have to learn in life when to just let go of things people and situations. I have noticed most people go into the world hoping for the best. Putting their best foot forward if you will. With the wish it will all work out. But what do you do when you come across those who are only out fro themselves. No matter what you do you become tangled in a web of deceit. To you hold on to the wish things will work out. Putting forth no physical effort to change your circumstances. Or do you fight like hell letting go of the wish. Taking your own destiny in your hand!

Folks the only thing you should put that much faith in is your self and God. Trust in your relationship with him. Trust in the abilities he has blessed you with. Never be fearful to stand alone. For you are never truly alone when you stand with God!

Stand And Fight!

No one who loves will deliberately forsake you! Make you feel bad or hurt you! When you are faced with any uncomfortable situation that puts your self preservation in jeopardy whether it be life threatening or your lively hood. Defend yourself with all your ability. You have the right to be a happy fully functioning individual!

Stand Up And Fight!

People have a way of bringing there problems into your life,then they become yours. Sometimes we get caught up in someone else's agenda,without being aware of it. Or there are the times where we are targeted and persecuted wrongly. Like a domino affect more people join in without having all the facts. Then your backed in a corner. Not unlike the Witch Trials in Medieval times.

These are the times when you find out what you are truly made of. You have to dig deep inside. Never give up the fight to be who you are without judgment or fear. Look out for distractions and tricks that make you feel your wrong. If your pure at heart you know it and the enemy knows it. There's nothing wrong with standing up for yourself. You have the God given right to defend yourself and all you hold dear to you. Don't be afraid of what people may say or think of you! Greater men and women have stood before if the face of adversity. But lived in triumph through faith, strength and diligence. Choose your battles wisely but never give up the fight for your Life!

We Don't Need Another Hero!

People are so funny these days! Everyone is looking for a hero. Someone who is larger than life. But once you show a glimpse of humanity, They turn on you in a New York Minute. So we go through life wearing masks and putting up barriers to hide the one good thing about being alive. Our humanity!

Folks judge not for that is the same standard in which you will be judged! Can you measure up to your own expectations of worth! Look at a persons triumphs and not their failures! We all fall from grace. But it's not the fall it's the rise that counts. Be proud of being flawed, less than perfect! Otherwise how can you strive to be or do better? Embrace your humanity

Resisting Temptation

Resisting temptation has turned out to be my Achilles Heel! I get so caught up in the moment that all my better judgment becomes challenged and my passion and over come my actions! Most of us know when we are in the moment, that the direction of our behavior or any given situation is taking a so so wrong turn!But we just move on forward anyway out of pure emotional adrenaline rush! It is these impulses that that stimulate our bad decision making! Not foreign to impulse buying or compulsive eating!
My suggestion folks is to step back from the situation. Just sit still and quiet for a minute! Don't allow anything or anyone rush into doing something without giving it complete thought. That time is critical in your making poor judgment or getting into potentially dangerous situations! Remember the next time you might be deciding on life or death! Both figuratively and literally!

Who Them Cap Fit! Let Them Wear It!

Nothing hurts more than putting all your trust in someone feeling like you've been betrayed! My people I have been on this road to self actualization. So through my journey of self-discovery. I have been analyzing my behavior. Excepting it good or bad and working on it! But I also have notice the quirks of others around me and peoples behavior in general! The one thing I have come away with is: Nothing is truly personal! We personalize peoples actions! Why he do this to me!? How come nothing goes my way!? People are just people folks! If someone else was in your exact position at that exact time and place! He would've did it to them too! So don't take on unnecessary baggage! We all go through hell in life! That's kind of the point! Grow from every experience in life! I always say life is like a stairs we walk them in different orders but it's the same staircase.

So in closing when you look at people. If he's a liar in your life! Trust me he's a liar in someone else's too! If he's a snake to you! He is slithering past others! If he's hating on you! Trust me there's no exclusivity to his hatred! People are who the are until they want to be better or do better! Don't eternalize folks behavior making yourself crazy! Lighten your load and free up some space in your mind and heart! It truly is what it is!

Loyalty Can Be Like A. Knife in Your Back!

Have you ever been loyal to someone only to find out the person you have allegiance to is you enemy or using you for what you have to offer at the time. What about those who you put your trust in? That turn on you for those who have forsaken you. Then there are those praise the lord God sent you to me Profits. Who turn out to be snakes and demons in disguise. You are blinded by the game because of who the messenger is. You see the messenger comes in the form of family, friend or lover. Allowing you to let down your guard.

Folks if it seems to good to be true most times it is! Every Sunny Day was proceeded by Stormy Weather. I don't suggest you go through life being jaded or guarded. But don't go through life with rose colored glasses either. Be aware of your surroundings Pay attention to those indicators. Most importantly never fear to question ones motives. Only the quilty will protest to much!