The Wish

We have to learn in life when to just let go of things people and situations. I have noticed most people go into the world hoping for the best. Putting their best foot forward if you will. With the wish it will all work out. But what do you do when you come across those who are only out fro themselves. No matter what you do you become tangled in a web of deceit. To you hold on to the wish things will work out. Putting forth no physical effort to change your circumstances. Or do you fight like hell letting go of the wish. Taking your own destiny in your hand!

Folks the only thing you should put that much faith in is your self and God. Trust in your relationship with him. Trust in the abilities he has blessed you with. Never be fearful to stand alone. For you are never truly alone when you stand with God!

Stand And Fight!

No one who loves will deliberately forsake you! Make you feel bad or hurt you! When you are faced with any uncomfortable situation that puts your self preservation in jeopardy whether it be life threatening or your lively hood. Defend yourself with all your ability. You have the right to be a happy fully functioning individual!

Stand Up And Fight!

People have a way of bringing there problems into your life,then they become yours. Sometimes we get caught up in someone else's agenda,without being aware of it. Or there are the times where we are targeted and persecuted wrongly. Like a domino affect more people join in without having all the facts. Then your backed in a corner. Not unlike the Witch Trials in Medieval times.

These are the times when you find out what you are truly made of. You have to dig deep inside. Never give up the fight to be who you are without judgment or fear. Look out for distractions and tricks that make you feel your wrong. If your pure at heart you know it and the enemy knows it. There's nothing wrong with standing up for yourself. You have the God given right to defend yourself and all you hold dear to you. Don't be afraid of what people may say or think of you! Greater men and women have stood before if the face of adversity. But lived in triumph through faith, strength and diligence. Choose your battles wisely but never give up the fight for your Life!

We Don't Need Another Hero!

People are so funny these days! Everyone is looking for a hero. Someone who is larger than life. But once you show a glimpse of humanity, They turn on you in a New York Minute. So we go through life wearing masks and putting up barriers to hide the one good thing about being alive. Our humanity!

Folks judge not for that is the same standard in which you will be judged! Can you measure up to your own expectations of worth! Look at a persons triumphs and not their failures! We all fall from grace. But it's not the fall it's the rise that counts. Be proud of being flawed, less than perfect! Otherwise how can you strive to be or do better? Embrace your humanity

Resisting Temptation

Resisting temptation has turned out to be my Achilles Heel! I get so caught up in the moment that all my better judgment becomes challenged and my passion and over come my actions! Most of us know when we are in the moment, that the direction of our behavior or any given situation is taking a so so wrong turn!But we just move on forward anyway out of pure emotional adrenaline rush! It is these impulses that that stimulate our bad decision making! Not foreign to impulse buying or compulsive eating!
My suggestion folks is to step back from the situation. Just sit still and quiet for a minute! Don't allow anything or anyone rush into doing something without giving it complete thought. That time is critical in your making poor judgment or getting into potentially dangerous situations! Remember the next time you might be deciding on life or death! Both figuratively and literally!

Who Them Cap Fit! Let Them Wear It!

Nothing hurts more than putting all your trust in someone feeling like you've been betrayed! My people I have been on this road to self actualization. So through my journey of self-discovery. I have been analyzing my behavior. Excepting it good or bad and working on it! But I also have notice the quirks of others around me and peoples behavior in general! The one thing I have come away with is: Nothing is truly personal! We personalize peoples actions! Why he do this to me!? How come nothing goes my way!? People are just people folks! If someone else was in your exact position at that exact time and place! He would've did it to them too! So don't take on unnecessary baggage! We all go through hell in life! That's kind of the point! Grow from every experience in life! I always say life is like a stairs we walk them in different orders but it's the same staircase.

So in closing when you look at people. If he's a liar in your life! Trust me he's a liar in someone else's too! If he's a snake to you! He is slithering past others! If he's hating on you! Trust me there's no exclusivity to his hatred! People are who the are until they want to be better or do better! Don't eternalize folks behavior making yourself crazy! Lighten your load and free up some space in your mind and heart! It truly is what it is!

Loyalty Can Be Like A. Knife in Your Back!

Have you ever been loyal to someone only to find out the person you have allegiance to is you enemy or using you for what you have to offer at the time. What about those who you put your trust in? That turn on you for those who have forsaken you. Then there are those praise the lord God sent you to me Profits. Who turn out to be snakes and demons in disguise. You are blinded by the game because of who the messenger is. You see the messenger comes in the form of family, friend or lover. Allowing you to let down your guard.

Folks if it seems to good to be true most times it is! Every Sunny Day was proceeded by Stormy Weather. I don't suggest you go through life being jaded or guarded. But don't go through life with rose colored glasses either. Be aware of your surroundings Pay attention to those indicators. Most importantly never fear to question ones motives. Only the quilty will protest to much!

Stormy Weather

In life we get warnings about the storms ahead! But sometimes we ignore the warnings. Focusing on those Sunny Days. Although we are equipped with the knowledge and gear to get through any storm. We sometimes allow winds turbulence and storm clouds detour us off the road of our true path in life.

In life we must stay focused keep your eye on the prize. Be Leary of detours and bumps in the road. It may knock you of course to your true destiny! Folks stay true to yourself and beliefs no matter what life throws your way!

AND SO

I am starting the New Year Right! Please come to me in peace love and prosperity! I shall do the same! Life is what you make it! So Live

A New Path

It's a New Year! So we try to start with a clean slate! But some people just don't understand the meaning of New! If you have people in your life today who want to continue behaviors and ideologies of Yester Year! Don't disrupt your flow! Continue on your path! It will lead you to your destiny and become a maze for those who don't have your back!

Change Is Good!!

I have recently come to the realization that people will always pigeon hole you into being who they want you to be. Especially who you were when they first met you. Although years even decades have past, they come back into your life with the same game, same sound track and same lifestyle! No matter what you have been through or accomplished, they're only willing to see you for the person they need you to be to complete them. You have to evolve in life because evolution is inevitable. If you don't grow you die! Imagine your body staying in infant form but your organs age and grow change? You'd eventually die a painful death. Same holds true in your thought process and the way you live your life. What worked for you at 12 holds no value at 22 like wise 22 to 42 and so on. Folks don't let people stunt your growth. Be all you can be Metamorphosis into that butterfly. Become the true you.

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!!!! May this year be blissfully blessed, motivating, and Prosperous! Let's learn from last years learning experiences. Remember folks there are no mistakes in life just learning experiences! Take from them what you need!

How To Cope!

Take time out this Holiday Season to reflect and rebuild your life. I know this past year has been a "doosey". Mistakes have been made. Regrets and great losses. There are so many broken people out there. Especially in finical times like these! Don't loose yourself to anger! It will only hold you back from your true destiny. Look around you. Someone is worse of than you! People fail, stumble, fall, and backslide. No judgment is required! Be a blessing to someone today!

Buyer Be Aware!

When making emotional purchases I urge you to be investigative and shrewd in you final decisions. I have found that people ingratiate themselves to you with ulterior motives. You may have been sought out months or years before you have even made initial contact. Much like walking in that pet store looking for that cute puppy in the window But the Salespersons does everything in their power to persuade you to get against your original mindset. The same holds true to people in your life. They may have hidden agenda and aggressions for you from a preconceived notion of who you are or who they think you to be out pure conjecture on their part. You end up sleeping with the enemy if you will.

Be sure to explore all avenues of investigation when making emotional or business descion. The hand you shake today may be the one that stabs you in the back tomorrow! read the fine print on your bill of sale before making a purchase. The thing might save most is yourself in the end!

Stay True To Yourself!

I have noticed in life that a majority of folks can't truly be their true selves. People want to keep up with the Jones's they emulate a certain life style that they can't afford or just isn't who they are as an individual! Other people want to fit into a group so bad that they get into dangerous life threatening situations! "Just being cool" But truly being weak! If they were alone none of those behaviors or actions would even cross their mind! I call that the peer pressure personality! What about the one who wants to be loved so bad that they lose who they are? When the relationship ends, they are the ones sitting on a deserted island with no map back to self! What is wrong with just being you? Always remember you are just the right mixture of contradicting combinations to be fabulous standing strong as who you are!

Face Your Demons!

You know that fear prevents us from doing a great deal in life! I have been personally plagued by my fears all my life. Sometimes when you don't want to hurt someone's feelings you do things you don't agree with and in the pit of your stomach you can feel it's wrong for you. But you ignore that indicator just out of fear of angering someone else. Some time in business we get into bed with folks we know are just wrong or take on projects we know are not going to work out in your best interest. People promising to take care of things and out of fear you don't question it, them or even do follow ups on the situation. Fearing your right and it truly is a hot mess. In fear of missing an opportunity or that your abilities will be in question. What about that relationship that just ain't right with a lover or friend? You just can't put your finger on it. You stay through horrible and self mutilating situations in fear of being alone or Loveless! Stop it right now! You have to take a stand and trust yourself and higher power, that living in fear is not a good way to be. Know that you are love and fear cannot exist in a house of love. It creates confusion mistrust and mass confusion. Live life fearless!

If you want something done right do it yourself!

Some people wait their whole life depending on someone else to love them and don't know how to love themselves. We put our hopes and dreams down on pen and paper and never put forth the effort to make them reality. Some of us even work in jobs making others beautiful and walk around looking a complete mess! Folks who better to do all these things for you than you! Who can best serve you than you. Be more intuitive, mindful and loving towards yourself! The way only you know how!

The Importance Of Mourning!

We must always remember to take the time out to mourn. Whether it be a death, the end of a relationship, or the loss of a job, we have to give ourselves time to process things and put things in perspective if you will. If we fail to feel we loose our empathy for others and slowly but surely chip away at our humanity. The only trick to this is finding out a proper timeline that will allow you to heal completely from each loss it could be for an hour or even two weeks whatever works for you! Proper timelines prevent you from loosing grip on your life as you know it all while the world keeps turning.

Play Your Position!

Hello my people! Before I get into my rant I would first like to express my best wishes and love during this Holiday Season.Now let me kick the real for a moment if you don't mind! Why is it that folks portray themselves as one thing or another without the resume to back it up or ingenuity or know how to perform the task at hand? We have so many managers who can't manage to even get out of bed on their own or stylist who can't read an editorial and parents who fail to raise their kids! Today's society is one hot mess! If you claim a position in life, play it right! Don't fake it till you make it. It's a complete waste of time and energy! Take care of you and what you claim to do in life! Today's society is to fast tracked, people are always looking for an easy way out and are narcissistic! Your work ethic and accomplishments should speak for itself! Handle your business in life. Stay true to who you are and establish where and what they can contribute to society. So the next time someone promises you the moon and back again. Make sure you can shoot for the stars without them while being humble and independent!

be a blessing!

Hey my people todays rant I want to be about love for the Thanksgiving Season! Look to your higher power and loved ones for strength to get you through the holiday season! So much loss and loneliness occurs during holidays. Look around you folks! Pay attention to those hurting and in need. Be the blessing they are looking for.