How To Cope!

Take time out this Holiday Season to reflect and rebuild your life. I know this past year has been a "doosey". Mistakes have been made. Regrets and great losses. There are so many broken people out there. Especially in finical times like these! Don't loose yourself to anger! It will only hold you back from your true destiny. Look around you. Someone is worse of than you! People fail, stumble, fall, and backslide. No judgment is required! Be a blessing to someone today!

Buyer Be Aware!

When making emotional purchases I urge you to be investigative and shrewd in you final decisions. I have found that people ingratiate themselves to you with ulterior motives. You may have been sought out months or years before you have even made initial contact. Much like walking in that pet store looking for that cute puppy in the window But the Salespersons does everything in their power to persuade you to get against your original mindset. The same holds true to people in your life. They may have hidden agenda and aggressions for you from a preconceived notion of who you are or who they think you to be out pure conjecture on their part. You end up sleeping with the enemy if you will.

Be sure to explore all avenues of investigation when making emotional or business descion. The hand you shake today may be the one that stabs you in the back tomorrow! read the fine print on your bill of sale before making a purchase. The thing might save most is yourself in the end!

Stay True To Yourself!

I have noticed in life that a majority of folks can't truly be their true selves. People want to keep up with the Jones's they emulate a certain life style that they can't afford or just isn't who they are as an individual! Other people want to fit into a group so bad that they get into dangerous life threatening situations! "Just being cool" But truly being weak! If they were alone none of those behaviors or actions would even cross their mind! I call that the peer pressure personality! What about the one who wants to be loved so bad that they lose who they are? When the relationship ends, they are the ones sitting on a deserted island with no map back to self! What is wrong with just being you? Always remember you are just the right mixture of contradicting combinations to be fabulous standing strong as who you are!

Face Your Demons!

You know that fear prevents us from doing a great deal in life! I have been personally plagued by my fears all my life. Sometimes when you don't want to hurt someone's feelings you do things you don't agree with and in the pit of your stomach you can feel it's wrong for you. But you ignore that indicator just out of fear of angering someone else. Some time in business we get into bed with folks we know are just wrong or take on projects we know are not going to work out in your best interest. People promising to take care of things and out of fear you don't question it, them or even do follow ups on the situation. Fearing your right and it truly is a hot mess. In fear of missing an opportunity or that your abilities will be in question. What about that relationship that just ain't right with a lover or friend? You just can't put your finger on it. You stay through horrible and self mutilating situations in fear of being alone or Loveless! Stop it right now! You have to take a stand and trust yourself and higher power, that living in fear is not a good way to be. Know that you are love and fear cannot exist in a house of love. It creates confusion mistrust and mass confusion. Live life fearless!

If you want something done right do it yourself!

Some people wait their whole life depending on someone else to love them and don't know how to love themselves. We put our hopes and dreams down on pen and paper and never put forth the effort to make them reality. Some of us even work in jobs making others beautiful and walk around looking a complete mess! Folks who better to do all these things for you than you! Who can best serve you than you. Be more intuitive, mindful and loving towards yourself! The way only you know how!

The Importance Of Mourning!

We must always remember to take the time out to mourn. Whether it be a death, the end of a relationship, or the loss of a job, we have to give ourselves time to process things and put things in perspective if you will. If we fail to feel we loose our empathy for others and slowly but surely chip away at our humanity. The only trick to this is finding out a proper timeline that will allow you to heal completely from each loss it could be for an hour or even two weeks whatever works for you! Proper timelines prevent you from loosing grip on your life as you know it all while the world keeps turning.

Play Your Position!

Hello my people! Before I get into my rant I would first like to express my best wishes and love during this Holiday Season.Now let me kick the real for a moment if you don't mind! Why is it that folks portray themselves as one thing or another without the resume to back it up or ingenuity or know how to perform the task at hand? We have so many managers who can't manage to even get out of bed on their own or stylist who can't read an editorial and parents who fail to raise their kids! Today's society is one hot mess! If you claim a position in life, play it right! Don't fake it till you make it. It's a complete waste of time and energy! Take care of you and what you claim to do in life! Today's society is to fast tracked, people are always looking for an easy way out and are narcissistic! Your work ethic and accomplishments should speak for itself! Handle your business in life. Stay true to who you are and establish where and what they can contribute to society. So the next time someone promises you the moon and back again. Make sure you can shoot for the stars without them while being humble and independent!