How To Cope!

Take time out this Holiday Season to reflect and rebuild your life. I know this past year has been a "doosey". Mistakes have been made. Regrets and great losses. There are so many broken people out there. Especially in finical times like these! Don't loose yourself to anger! It will only hold you back from your true destiny. Look around you. Someone is worse of than you! People fail, stumble, fall, and backslide. No judgment is required! Be a blessing to someone today!

Buyer Be Aware!

When making emotional purchases I urge you to be investigative and shrewd in you final decisions. I have found that people ingratiate themselves to you with ulterior motives. You may have been sought out months or years before you have even made initial contact. Much like walking in that pet store looking for that cute puppy in the window But the Salespersons does everything in their power to persuade you to get against your original mindset. The same holds true to people in your life. They may have hidden agenda and aggressions for you from a preconceived notion of who you are or who they think you to be out pure conjecture on their part. You end up sleeping with the enemy if you will.

Be sure to explore all avenues of investigation when making emotional or business descion. The hand you shake today may be the one that stabs you in the back tomorrow! read the fine print on your bill of sale before making a purchase. The thing might save most is yourself in the end!

Stay True To Yourself!

I have noticed in life that a majority of folks can't truly be their true selves. People want to keep up with the Jones's they emulate a certain life style that they can't afford or just isn't who they are as an individual! Other people want to fit into a group so bad that they get into dangerous life threatening situations! "Just being cool" But truly being weak! If they were alone none of those behaviors or actions would even cross their mind! I call that the peer pressure personality! What about the one who wants to be loved so bad that they lose who they are? When the relationship ends, they are the ones sitting on a deserted island with no map back to self! What is wrong with just being you? Always remember you are just the right mixture of contradicting combinations to be fabulous standing strong as who you are!

Face Your Demons!

You know that fear prevents us from doing a great deal in life! I have been personally plagued by my fears all my life. Sometimes when you don't want to hurt someone's feelings you do things you don't agree with and in the pit of your stomach you can feel it's wrong for you. But you ignore that indicator just out of fear of angering someone else. Some time in business we get into bed with folks we know are just wrong or take on projects we know are not going to work out in your best interest. People promising to take care of things and out of fear you don't question it, them or even do follow ups on the situation. Fearing your right and it truly is a hot mess. In fear of missing an opportunity or that your abilities will be in question. What about that relationship that just ain't right with a lover or friend? You just can't put your finger on it. You stay through horrible and self mutilating situations in fear of being alone or Loveless! Stop it right now! You have to take a stand and trust yourself and higher power, that living in fear is not a good way to be. Know that you are love and fear cannot exist in a house of love. It creates confusion mistrust and mass confusion. Live life fearless!

If you want something done right do it yourself!

Some people wait their whole life depending on someone else to love them and don't know how to love themselves. We put our hopes and dreams down on pen and paper and never put forth the effort to make them reality. Some of us even work in jobs making others beautiful and walk around looking a complete mess! Folks who better to do all these things for you than you! Who can best serve you than you. Be more intuitive, mindful and loving towards yourself! The way only you know how!

The Importance Of Mourning!

We must always remember to take the time out to mourn. Whether it be a death, the end of a relationship, or the loss of a job, we have to give ourselves time to process things and put things in perspective if you will. If we fail to feel we loose our empathy for others and slowly but surely chip away at our humanity. The only trick to this is finding out a proper timeline that will allow you to heal completely from each loss it could be for an hour or even two weeks whatever works for you! Proper timelines prevent you from loosing grip on your life as you know it all while the world keeps turning.

Play Your Position!

Hello my people! Before I get into my rant I would first like to express my best wishes and love during this Holiday Season.Now let me kick the real for a moment if you don't mind! Why is it that folks portray themselves as one thing or another without the resume to back it up or ingenuity or know how to perform the task at hand? We have so many managers who can't manage to even get out of bed on their own or stylist who can't read an editorial and parents who fail to raise their kids! Today's society is one hot mess! If you claim a position in life, play it right! Don't fake it till you make it. It's a complete waste of time and energy! Take care of you and what you claim to do in life! Today's society is to fast tracked, people are always looking for an easy way out and are narcissistic! Your work ethic and accomplishments should speak for itself! Handle your business in life. Stay true to who you are and establish where and what they can contribute to society. So the next time someone promises you the moon and back again. Make sure you can shoot for the stars without them while being humble and independent!

be a blessing!

Hey my people todays rant I want to be about love for the Thanksgiving Season! Look to your higher power and loved ones for strength to get you through the holiday season! So much loss and loneliness occurs during holidays. Look around you folks! Pay attention to those hurting and in need. Be the blessing they are looking for.

be a blessing!

Hey my people todays rant I want to be about love for the Thanksgiving Season! Look to your higher power and loved ones for strength to get you through the holiday season! So much loss and loneliness occurs during holidays. Look around you folks! Pay attention to those hurting and in need. Be they blessing the are looking for.

Lack Of Planning On Your Part Doesn't Constitute Emergency On My Part!

Hey my people! I have been forced with this label as the "clutch man"! People always seem to come to me as the last resort when the chips are down because I always seem to be able to deliver every time. It has become my reality and my station in life if you will! But I am far from that person in reality! I love to plan ahead and have options due to contingency planning! Being forewarned is being forearmed so why not arm yourself with as much ammunition as possible when fighting this war called life? As I said before 80% is mental the other 20% is physical! Metal toughness is the best preparation to weather any storm! So I vow to move my presumed reality of "clutch man" to my true reality of "Mr. prepared".

There Is No Competition!

Hey my people! So lately I have been thinking about this concept while watching TV shows and observing people's behavior! Everyone seems to be watching out for the competition. What's the competition doing? Basically everyone's business and personal life decisions are based on what the competition is doing! Well food for thought my people! If you strive for excellence in everything you do in family, love and business, your only competition you have to measure up with is the man in the mirror. Strive to do better and be better everytime! You pay homage to the predecessors and make them proud. But be your only competitor! Life will be much more simpler and tranquil this way!

Aint No Half Steppin!

You know my people this weekend I had a revelation!People want to be so fabulous today that they are in rush!Skipping major steps to achieve what they desire. No one wants to go toschool any more and study thier craft! Everyone these days are not willingto intern or volunteer! So what we end up with is a pool of uneducated non-talented know-it-alls, destroying the reputaion and hard work of thier predessesors! So it all becomes is one big hot mess!Learn your craft well young world! Study what you aspire to be! There are no short cuts in life! Put in the work and stop trying to cut throat your way into your dream career! Fakers and posers shall be put on blast and exiled!

Bump That!!!!

Whenever your best is not good enough! Bump that!
If you have given all you got and still fall short of your goals. Bump that! When you are at the end of your ropes cause people wont give you a break! Bump that!

People everyone in your immediate life should be giving you unconditional love. The people in you outer circle should be able to see who you truly are and except that! When you are spinning your wheels trying to get all of the above from folks. It's time to make a change. If you are pure at heart in everything you do and people still don't cut you a break. Because they can't benefit or refuse to pick up the slack and do the work themselves. Kick them to the curb! They mean you no good! Life is about community! Which is why we got spiritual places to congregate. Nothing more nothing less. The higher power knows your true intentions. Never allow any man judge you so harshly you start to doubt yourself. Anyone worth knowing and having in your life will work with you no matter what. For they know your heart. Be true to yourself and the rest will come in time.

Do What You Do!

Hey my people! I had to step off the scene for a minute! I have beenspinning my wheels working for everyone else's dreams and true potentialand ignoring my own needs! Saying yes to everyone Agreeing to things I wasleary about from the very start. All to be viewed as nice and agreeable. Adeep rooted need to be liked by everyone! What I got in return wasdisrespect,underappreciation, false accusations and disappointment! If you are a baker, shoe maker or floor cleaner, do what you do with pride and respect! But most of all get fulfillment out of it! If something or someone makes you feel less than happy kick it to the curb! No one and nothing is worth your self respect. Do what you do and do it well! But most of all do itfor you!

The Game

80% of the game is getting mentally prepared! The other 20% Is performance! If you have mental toughness it's hard to be defeated! So get your mind right folks get back in the game!

The Hypocrisy Of Man

It's funny to me how people say one thing and mean another! "God Bless you " Being sarcastic! Knowing full well they are cursing the day you were born! "How are you ?" When they care less! "Break a leg!" Well, maybe not break a leg that they mean! Folks say what you mean! Mean what you say! Honesty don't hurt unless it's to much for someone to handle! Be true to yourself and others around you. Trust me you'll sleep easier and go through life with less burdens and regrets.

To Be Truly Loved

How will I know If He Really Loves Me? Love doesn't hurt! Make You feel insecure ! Or leave you hanging! If someone needs to complete you as a person! Then you got major work to do in life! Love and companionship should fill you up and satisfy you like a hearty meal! You have to make you happy and fulfill your life with what you need to prepare for being truly loved!

Lock Em Up

Desperate times calls for desperate measures! But be aware of desperate people! They will do anything to get ahead! That's makes them dangerous! In society what do we do with dangerous people? Contain them!

Friends Anyone

Friend indeed or friend for the weed!? If you people in your life that are only down with you when let the good times roll! Or want to party all the time and when times get rough they disappear! That's a friend for the weed! A true friend truly is concerned with you on a whole. Learn the difference between the two! Don't get mad Just make the adjustment in your expectations and commitment to that person and keep it moving!

Looking Back

When your present and future seem to gloomy to bare look to your true friends! They will always remind How great you were and truly are! I have found that in life we get tossed and turned so much that we loose sight of self! Loose our footing and direction. Look back to where you started to find out where you've been to measure how far you've come. To know where your going!

PLay Fair

There use to be honor amongst thieves Back in the day! If even the criminal elements had a code of honor and respect! What is wrong with society today? I find it crazy how our youth and peers have no respect or honor! Will do anything to get ahead! Be aware the back you stab today my hold the face you need to succeed in the future!

The maze of life

New York is a rat race! In this busy thing we called life. It is easy to loose yourself in the travel of reaching your goals a destiny. You have to take time to do what's really important! Rest family and love! Time only gets shorter folks. Relax relate release!

Peace Of Mind

We always doubt ourselves and our own power! Destiny if you will! Never let fear determine who you are! Fear is what started racism and prejudice! Fear is what starts wars! When your in fear of yourself! You are at war with yourself! Panic attacks high blood pressure heart ache headaches all symptoms from fear! If you trust in yourself conquer your fear! You can go through life with a clear mind and conscience! Find your true strengths and destiny! Fear can cripple you!!

Questions From Humanity

"Time heals all wounds! Experience is the best teacher!" That's what we are taught! But what if time is only time and your experiences teaches you to be afraid? What can you do? who do you turn to? Does any one person truly have the answers? Are we even supposed to find out?

Take Control Of You!

Why is that folks take you kindness for weakness? Don't they know real soldiers move in silence? Silence is golden? Int those moments of silence the best counter attacks were created and lead! Be an arsenal of silence! Let folks under estimate you! Then attack with knowledge, confidence and success! Live your live on your terms! you will truly be self actualized and find true happiness that way!

Keep Your Guard Up!

In this life of movers and shakers! We also have fake it to make it! Learn the difference folks. Anyone who always has to be heard,fast talking,know everything,not willing to listen,can't be taught anything! Run the other way folks! That person got game! True Knowledge comes from your piers and learning experiences! How can one teach if they don't learn! No one can lead unless they can follow! Buyer be aware

Never Bite The Hand That Feeds You

Don't be in a rush! Wait until it's your time! The Apprentice can't wait to be the Wizard! The Prince can't wait to be the King! Without earning it or learning all the tricks of the trade. Allowing uncultured ambition cloud their judgment. Making false move and shady dealing be their platform to success. Folks never assume because someone's eyes appear to be closed that they are sleeping!!!!

Love Gives You Wings

When your in love you think and do things out of character! Sometimes left feeling used and abused! Question Folks If love makes you feel that way? Then what is hate? Never give your power to anyone! Love hurts is a myth! You should be moved and uplifted when your in love!! Anything else is purely uncivilized!! Folks Know yourself Know and make your boundaries clear! Never let a bad feeling or situation take you over!

Don't You Blow A Good Thing!

Don't let greed cloud your better judgment! When you are only moved to do things for monetary gain. You loose more and more of your humanity! As humans we are supposed to congregate and be charitable humanitarians! This what sets us apart from the jungle life animals who survive on greed bruit force. Prime example our current financial situation and the warwe're in that never seems to end! Folks never loose your soul to inhuman behavior!

Finance 101"Ride the Wave"

In the financial crunch of today's time! People are more stressed out and strapped fro cash more than ever before! I am just ridding this wave and planning. This is the time for all to tap into their entrapeneual spirit to make innovate ways to make money! Never stress out stay quite keep your spending at a minimum! Don't let scare tactics and fear immobilize you! Be creative and resourceful! This is your time

Food For The Soul

After all the drama I have been facing working in this industry! I rediscovered why I do what I do! I did a Wedding yesterday for a young couple! It was so amazing to see young love! But even deeper than that to have people recognize your talents and truly appreciate you! Folks get we all need to be love appreciated and reaffirmed if you will. Surround yourself with People and situations that feed your soul!

Wht Can't We Be Friends

We spend so much of our life chasing money and pipe dreams. We always put of what's truly important in life. Simple human contact and personally connecting with those in our life! I'll do it tomorrow my job needs me I need this! Life comes at you fast and hard! There are no do overs! Take time to breathe! Smell the roses view the scenery! Make life lasting connections!

Respect Your Self!

Every body needs somebody somties.Lack of Planning on your part does not constitute emergency on my part! Two perfectly good phrases about relationships! Why is it that some people treat you like a motorcycle jump on hit the gears and ride you until you are completely out of gas! Folks never be anyone's door Matt! Stand up for yourself no matter how trivial it might seem! Your self respect and esteem deserves it!

Food For Thought

"Life is what you make it" At least that's what we are told! So many times in life we do make choices that are not good for us. But what do you do when others make choices that directly affect you in a negative way! Do you cut them off? Do you Curse them out? Or do you just keep on moving? I found that every thing can be turned into a positive with the right spin on it! Folks never sweat things you cant change Roll with the punches!!! Stay Focused You'll survive the storm!

Silence Is Golden

This morning I know the value of silence!! Situation in life have a way of spinning out of control and fast! People have a way of over stepping their boundaries over emphasizing there power and underestimated yours! Real soldiers move in silence. Never attack while the enemy is striking! The best strategy is silence! Then when you are completely armed and truly ready! Then and only then should you counter attack! Folks the enemies biggest flaw in underestimation!

duck down

DUCK DOWN !! ONLY THE ORIGINAL GUN CLAP" ISN'T IT CRAZY HOW PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS GUNNING FOR YOU!! YOUR JOB LOVER HUSBAND WIFE YOUR LIFE!!! WHY CAN'T WE CREATE OUR OWN AND BE HAPPY WITH THAT!?? THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER UNTIL YOU SEE WHAT THAT PERSON HAD TO DO TO GET IT AND MAINTAIN THAT PURE HEALTHY GREEN TEXTURE. FOLKS WORK HARD FOR YOURSELF AND WORK HARD TO HELP OTHERS! BUT BEWARE OF THE GUNNING FOR YOU AND WHAT YOU HAVE ACCOMPLISHED

me first

AFTER A HECTIC WEEKEND !! WORKING SO HARD TO KEEP MY CLIENTS STAFF AND BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS GOOD. I DID SOME SOUL SEARCHING! WHERE IS THE ME FACTOR! I HAVE DONE NOTHING FOR ME! YES, IT'S MY COMPANY AND I WANT MY BUSINESS TO GROW!!! BUT WHEN YOU GET BEAT UP IN THE DAILY GRIND TO MAKE THE NEXT BUCK. WHO NURSES YOUR BRUISES AND HEALS YOUR MIND BODY AND SOUL. ( "OUTSIDE OF GOD AND OR A HIGHER POWER!") ME!!!!!! SO I MAKE THIS DECLARATION TODAY! EVERYDAY IS ABOUT ME! I AM GOING TO TAKE A MOMENT FOR ME EVERYDAY! LIFE IS TO SHORT FOR REGRETS FOLKS !!! MAKE SOME TIME FOR ME!!!!

Stay Focused

Woke up this morning feeling anxious! But yet motivated to accomplish my goals!! Funny how when you encounter people who have ulterior motives of self enhancement and self indulgence. Has that affect on you!!! Work with people who are honest, selfless, dedicated and goal oriented!

BE AWARE OF WOLVES IN SHEEP'S CLOTHING!

BE AWARE OF WOLVES IN SHEEP'S CLOTHING! I FIND MYSELF TIME AND TIME AGAIN BEING CHALLENGED BY FOLKS WHO ARE DYING TO WORK WITH YOU! JUST WHEN YOU GET A RHYTHM GOING! YOU FIND OUT THEY ARE JUST TRYING TO BE YOU! WANT TO SHARE IN ALL THE BENEFITS!! WITH NONE OF THE HARD WORK!!

LIFE LIFE LIFE

IN MY ROAD TRAVELED CHASING MY DREAMS! I HAVE RUN IN ALL SORTS OF PEOPLE! I REALIZE THAT THERE ARE SEASONS AND REASON FOR EVERYTHING AND EVERY RELATIONSHIP. KNOWING THE DIFFERENCE AND WHEN TO LET GO IS THE KEY! ALWAYS STAND STRONG! NEVER SETTLE FOR LEES THAN YOUR WORTH! ASK FOR EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED NOT WANT! NEVER COMPROMISE YOURSELF FOR LOVE FRIENDSHIP MONEY OR YOUR FEARS!